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Posted by Dan L. on March 1, 2010, 9:53 pm
 
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Same here, churches seem to be exempt as well. Churches might use the
"Pot Luck" dinners as a way out of the "Charity Organization" group.

Charities may have to operate under different government regulations.
Many Charities also receive government funding where churches don't.

Enjoy Life... Dan

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Posted by Dan L. on February 28, 2010, 12:56 am
 



Also, check out the local garden associations. Many of them have or know
where there are local community gardens. Free food for the taking, just
help them pull a weed or two.

Enjoy Life... Dan

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Posted by Bill who putters on February 27, 2010, 10:49 am
 

 White_Noise_1@webtv.net (EVP MAN) wrote:


 Some times a little info can provide food for the table.

http://www.culinate.com/articles/our_table/the_ultimate_budget_meal

 If you have a blood sugar concern and favor less carbs  and starches
you may be able to tweak some of this your way.

Bill

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Garden in shade zone 5 S Jersey USA



Posted by David Hare-Scott on February 27, 2010, 11:01 pm
 

EVP MAN wrote:

I always give away excess to neighbours every year and ask nothing in
return.  But it comes back anyway.

David


Posted by Coffee's For Closers on March 3, 2010, 10:47 pm
 

White_Noise_1@webtv.net says...
 

I would never do something like that.  It would lead to being
personally marked as "always" having a surplus, which I would
"owe" to people, with zero understanding that I had worked for
the extra food.  Many people blow things out of proportion, and
have an amazing sense of entitlement.

If I wanted to donate food, I would do so via a food bank, soup
kitchen, shelter, etc.

This isn't about being "selfish."  It's about having healthy
boundaries.  I have learned to sort of depersonalise any
generosity, because so many prospective recipients just have no
limits to what they expect, demand, and feel entitled to from me.  

Several years ago, I had a next-door neighbour who repeatedly
started conversations by pointing out the alleged surplus of food
in the very small container garden I had at the time.  She was
directly trying to get me to "admit" to having far more than I
could possibly eat before it spoiled.  So of course it wouldn't
be any sacrifice for me to hand it over.  This was the only
subject she seemed interested in bringing up, except for
mentioning her overall self-pity about her financial/housing
situation, having just entered the adult world of jobs and bills
and responsibility (poor baby.)

That was part of a more general problem with her and another
neighbour (an obnoxious divorced housewife) in that building who
perceived me as generally having more resources than them.  
Including the fact that I actually get off the couch and do stuff
on the weekends, rather than sit around whining like them.  They
both eventually became openly hostile about my refusal to be used
as a personal servant and sugar-mommy.  The above-described
individual actually told other neighbours that she had considered
physically damaging my plants as revenge for refusing to be
personal "friends" with her.

And, no, there wasn't really any surplus.  And no, I didn't
really have more resources than them, except for more willingness
to work at something.


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